Etiquette & Dresscode

We want everyone to come along and feel valued, respected, welcome and safe. To achieve this we have some club rules that are common sense but worth pointing out.

a. CONSENT IS SEXY. As in any other situation, consent is everything. Do not assume you can touch without invite or agreement with the parties involved. No mean no at any point in time, not maybe or later or only if you can get away with it. Please accept you are not everyone’s cup of tea and a polite refusal has to be accepted with good grace and polite manners.

b. MANNERS COST NOTHING. Should a situation arise that common decencyand manners are ignored and a situation becomes uncomfortable due to someone’s words or behaviour, please notify staff immediately. Verbal or physical abuse is not tolerated ever and will result in removal from the premises and membership being withdrawn without recompense.

c. ASSUMPTION MAKES AN ASS OF YOU. Do not assume just because someone attends the venue they are “up for it” Many people attend for many reasons and have many different preferences which may not match yours. Get chatting and see how things go, you will soon know if you are on the same wave length

d. RESPECT. Everyone deserves this as a right, you, us and everyone else as well as the venue. Should anyone be disrespectful please make the staff aware immediately. Wilful damage or circumvention of the rule that are unbecoming to a happy place to be and a good night our will not be accepted. Respect other people’s choices and personal rules and orientation even if they are not for you, variety is the spice of life.

e. MOBILE PHONES
f. DRESSCODE.

GENTS.
Please remember you are out to impress. If you turn up in trackies or trainers, or look dishevelled, you will be refused entry. Guys, a nice shirt and trousers or smart jeans with a shirt and tidy shoes are perfectly acceptable. Don’t forget people may see your boxers, so why not treat yourself to some sexy underwear?  If you arrive looking like you have just come from the gym or a building site, it will be a ‘no’ from us as well as other members. In the summer, feel free to wear smart shorts, but not cut-offs or training shorts.

There is nothing more alluring than the smell of fresh skin and pleasant aftershave. Make sure your personal hygiene is as good as you look. If you're wearing your best CKs but stink of BO, guess where you will get… nowhere.

We have showers and lockers at the club so freshen up and be ready for some fun should it arise.

LADIES.
Now is the opportunity to get the man in your life investing in some nice lingerie for you… any excuse girls. Most of the ladies that come along will arrive in a sexy club type dress and many will bring a change of outfit or some nice lingerie to change into as the evening progresses. Feel free to bring as many outfits as you want and really be the peacock.

EVERYONE.
No-one wants to feel like a performing seal, so we insist that when you enter any play space you DRESS LESS. Lingerie, underwear, towels, robes or as naked as Mother Nature intended are all fine with us.  Please remember to bring a towel with you for the hot tub.

We do have condoms available onsite but recommend you bring along your preferred brand.

Please note, no branded sportswear (Nike, Adidas etc) is allowed in the club.

f. The venue is fully licensed you are NOT permitted to bring your own refreshments into the club no matter what. Random bag and locker checks will be carried out without notice, if you are caught with anything you will be asked to leave it in your vehicle or in reception for collection on your way out, refusal or consumption inside the club will result in a corkage fee and being rejected from the premises.

g. We operate a zero drug policy, at all times and reserve the right to inform the police of your details should anything be discovered or reasonable assumption made of contravention.

h. Single Gentlemen. Spaces on any event that welcomes you to the club are limited in number so as to not have an event over run by Guys, this is to maintain a balance that is fair and enjoyable for all.

Should you book a slot for an event and not show up, your ability to pay on the door will be removed and you will in future be required to prepay for events, as taking a limited space and not showing up denies a space to someone else.

i. If someone or a situation leaves you feeling uncomfortable or upset, please come to the bar and speak to the staff, if the situation is delicate and you need to speak to someone in private, please ask for a Vanilla Cocktail. The staff are all trained to handle delicate situations and a process is in place to get you to a safe space to talk and for any issues to be dealt with discretely. The team are here to ensure you can relax and enjoy your night out knowing you are in the safest place to be.